U NEED A STRONG ENOUGH WHY!

You’ve likely heard this from all of the self-help guru’s out there…

If you’re struggling with motivation, it’s simply because you don’t have a strong enough WHY.

You see, you need a purpose behind everything that you do.  Without a purpose or any compelling reason to do something, you simply won’t feel motivated to do it. Want to make a six figure per year passive income? Great… but WHY? When you ask most people this, they likely don’t have any compelling reason to drive them.  Or if they do have reasons, it’s simply not a strong enough motivator for them. One person might say, “Well, I’d like to make more money so that I can travel more and have more fun.”  While that might be a good reason, how strong of a reason is that for you?  How badly do you want to travel more and have more fun in your life? The answer to that depends on how much EMOTION you associate to that reason. Another person might say, “I must make more money so that I can get out of debt and p...

We can’t talk about self-confidence, self-empowerment, and self-respect without talking about boundaries. Boundaries are intentional acts of separation between you and another person whom you believe is not treating you with kindness, respect, and a sense of humanity. Boundaries say, “If you choose to treat me with disrespect, and hurtful guilt ridden techniques, you are not allowed to be part of my world. I am self-confident, self-empowered and have self-respect. And I choose to only surround myself with those people who understand, support, and respect me—period. Treating me with kindness, respect, and a sense of humanity is not optional.” Boundaries are necessary when you need to keep yourself healthy and free from toxic energy others are choosing to put into the world.

It’s very difficult to maintain a sense of self-confidence, self-empowerment, and self-respect when you have people around you who don’t respect your energy. If they’re not respecting your energy, they’re not respect...